A New Year

Written by Yvonne E. Venter – Louw –  2017/01/09

In the fresh hold of a new year, we always find ourselves setting ‘New Year’s Resolutions’, dreaming of the big things or small changes we are going to make during the coming year. The things we want to do, see, experience and achieve – but very few of these actually come to fulfilment. Many of us never quite understand why it is not possible to get to the goal we set out for; some of us have even went as to try a multitude of methodologies and very expensive tools and course, in the hope to reap the rewards… but alas, we still find ourselves a few months done the line still sitting at the starting point and wondering why do we even bother.

If you feel that you are not one of the ‘us’ as mentioned above – then I would not recommend that you follow this series of blogs; for in this series I’ll reveal the secrets I have accumulated over the past 20 years. All the pieces of the BIGGER PICTURE, all the little-untold secrets and unconventional tools; which I have now been able to finally put all together and provide myself (and those who are willing to learn) the natural flow and growth to success.

Ready? Well then – let’s get this journey started…

There are a plethora of resources and books out there, but most of them only inform us of one side of the diagram. Which diagram is this you might ask? It is this one ….

Many might believe that it is formed old cult legends or some mythical order, it might even have been ‘The Secret’ written on the Green Emerald Tablets… All I know for certain is that I have found answers to this diagram.

However, it might be – if you do not understand the where to start with this diagram or you do implement this, but in the wrong order … it ain’t going to work!

So where do we start?

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Thursdays In Black

The first day I heard of “Thursdays In Black“, I almost started crying…

Not because of the way the presentation was done by Lyn van Rooyen or even the stats that was mentioned … It was the fact that deep inside to me that little voice screamed “Hallelujah” 

Finally, there is some manner to show support to all those who are currently suffering, to protest and to proudly announce that what is happing/had happened is not the end.

16 Days of Activism should be every day!

I am more than just a survivor … yes, I was abused for 9 years of my childhood and suffered in my first marriage – Emotional Abuse, Physical Abuse and Sexual Abuse… the hands of those who we were supposed to be trusted, who are supposed to care for us and nurture us.

And yes, it has been an extremely long and hard journey, to move past the physical scars, work through the psychological impact to come to an understanding of those actions and ultimately getting to a point of forgiveness towards those individuals.

There are no reasons why anybody should suffer and go through this…

BUT when I felt so isolated and alone, I wish those who I did inform and ask to help did actually speak up, to make a difference not just in my life but in the lives of other abused individuals; I wish they would have taken action …

In hindsight today I have perfect 20/20 vision and I can let go of the pain, let go of that which does not serve me. I can move forward in life knowing that I have made it this far and my entire future is still waiting for me.

But the GRANDEST GIFT OF ALL … I can tell my story, through my experience and the resulting quest to find the answers, I am able to help those who are feeling the same way I did so long ago.

We do not have to continue to suffer from the impact of the psychological scars nor do we have to accept this. We can be emotionally free, we can function independently … we can continue with a life filled with success…

All we have to do is to make the right choices moving forward!

For more information visit ThursdaysInBlack or email Lyn van Rooyen 

With Gratitude,

Yvonne E. Venter – Louw

 

 

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