Taking a long hard look at our reality…

Today, I am at a loss for words… I am sitting here thinking to myself and contemplating ways to grow out of this destruction.

How… How can I best be of service?

How can I make a difference? How can anyone person stand up in the face of danger and destruction, and make a difference?

After reading all the posts and looking at the videos… feeling the pain of each who has lost; I have to remind myself of the lessons learned I learned from the old masters, from religious tales and age-old scriptures – gnostic, dogma, doctrine and more.

“Shiva” known in the Hindu trinity as ‘The Destroyer’ is the one who creates, protects and transforms the Universe.

“Jesus” as the Son of God in Christianity also had to first be ‘destroyed‘ before He could rise up.

Aristotle, Lau Tso, Confucious, Augustine of Hippo, Socrates, Plato, Pythagoras, Kukai, Sun Tzu, Simone de Beauvoir, Allan Watts and so many more that could be mentioned… Even in the Pagan and Occult information; for that fact, other sections in the Christian Bible and the Quran – tells us that destruction is always followed by new growth.

As the phoenix rises from the ashes, a new cycle will always follow when the old one dies down.

As the grass fields are burned to black crips during the dry and cold winter months… after the first rains of spring, the new grass sprouts will change to field back to green again. Because that is what the grass is focused on in the Spring and Summer sessions. To flourish and grow taller and stronger as their roots are now set deeper than the years before.

But when the field did not burn to crips in the Winter months, it takes so much longer for us to see the new green through the old, dead brown-grey mass.

The Human Body and Spirit also abides by the same Laws of Nature. As we grow year after year, by Nature, there are cells and even ideas and thoughts that are shredded left behind and/or gets destroyed. Our Spirit goes through the same metamorphosis, as we grow and develop in our lifetime. Some beliefs and thoughts are retained while others are lost along the way, as they no longer served a purpose to us.

So, here I am sitting today, looking at the destruction – allowing myself to feel the emotions of pain, anguish, sadness, anger, disappointment, and yes, even fear… not just for myself, my family, my friends, my clients and acquaintances, but for both sides of this story. Reminding myself not to become the emotion but just allow me to experience it. Allowing myself to grow and learn from it so that I (and those I guide) can grow from this experience.

It might not seem as much, and in truth, it does not feel like much – but – once the fact and truth of this reality have settled in, after the freaky waves of confusion, fear, worry and even adrenaline has settled; it will be those who can stand as leaders, those who guide others, those who are not doing it for their own glory but for the betterment of their community, those who are not in the spotlight – they will be the ones who will be able to guide others to the love and light; to heal, to grow and to rise again out of the ashes…

So for now, I will allow my tears to flow, I will allow my heart to ache, I will allow my empathic side to experience this current situation… for tomorrow my analytical and logical side will better comprehend what needs to be done, to be able to move forward.

Children of our beloved country, South Africa, for young and old, for all the races and creeds, for all of you out there – my thoughts and prayers are with all!

In Sympathy, Empathy, Love, Gratitude and Grace,

Yvonne E. Venter-Louw

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Why is it Important to Improve Yourself?

Sometimes, when all our doubts, fears and insecurities wrap ourselves up, we always come up with the idea of “I wish I was somebody else.”  More often than not, we think and believe that someone or rather, most people are better than us – when in reality, the fact is, most people are more scared than us.

You spot a totally eye-catching girl sitting by herself at a party, casually sipping on a glass of Asti Spumanti. You think to yourself, “she looks so perfectly calm and confident.” But if you could read thru her transparent mind, you would see a bunch of clouds of thoughts and you might just be amazed that she’s thinking “are people talking about why I am seated here alone?… Why don’t guys find me attractive? …I don’t like my ankles; they look too skinny… I wish I was as intelligent as my best friend.”

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S.A. Quote: Decisions

“To make decisions without thought is like participating in a steeplechase with bandaged eyes.”

Jack Penn (Surgeon, Philosopher, Artist)

Would it surprise you to know that approximately only 3% of the global population do actually do proper planning? Making decisions without thinking about it properly.  Impulsive and uncalculated decisions. Almost just living on instinct…

I do not just mean financial planning, but life planning in general…

Disagree? Okay, let me ask you the following questions:

  1. Do you have a goal, vision, mission, purpose for your life written down? A legacy you wish to leave behind? A dream life you want to achieve?
  2. Do you have a clearly written out list of top three (3) goals for the next 369 days? Not just in the form of business planning but personal planning.
  3. Do you have a clearly written out plan/strategy to achieve these goals within the next 369 days?
  4.  Have you done any research, recording of data, data tracking and analysis in accordance with the goals you want to achieve?
  5. Have you reflected and improved on previously gathered data to realistically plan or strategies your next week, month, quarter or year?
  6. Have you spent time inwardly reflecting on your choices, experiences, lessons learned and the reasons why it could have been prevented?

And with these questions, I am not referring to your list of new years resolutions that fell by the wayside somewhere between then and now…

I am talking about goals which are congruent to your true authentic natural self,  true to your values, true to your talents and skills…?

Would it surprise you to know that only the top 3% for Financial Independent Individuals that have perfected this to an art… only because they invested in themselves by working with coaches and mentors – following a basic outline formula?

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Author:

Yvonne E. Venter-Louw

YEVL (Pty) Ltd. Director & Principal

Researcher, Advisor, Educator, Coach, Mentor and Speaker

– The Psychological impact  and rehabilitation of past experiences on daily driven Financial decisions

[Cert. Financial Planning + GIBS MLOLP  + RE5 + Cert. Financial Coaching + Dip. Psychology + Hypnosis + NLP + Subliminal Therapy + Numerology + Energy Healing]

Naturally creating Freedom, Meaning & Wealth!

 

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